Try it… Love it!

We had a birthday in the family last week and I wanted to make something other than just your typical birthday cake. My dad happened to be coming up this way and was going to stay at Lake O’Neil for the weekend. We decided that, instead of going out to dinner like we normally do, to spend some time at the lake on Saturday night. We decided on foil dinners and I had flash backs to a peach cobbler that Brother Taylor used to make. Brother Taylor was a guy in our bishopric when I was in Young Womens and he would make peach cobbler every year for us at girls camp. Complete with vanilla ice cream of course.

Brother Taylor used to make it in a dutch oven and I have little to no experience with one of those things. I don’t have a recipe for peach cobbler either, at least I didn’t. Until Friday. Then I found one, online of course. I thought that it really seemed way to easy. Three ingredients? That’s it? Hm… that means that it will be either too tart or too sweet. Not so!! This is probably the best recipe I’ve ever tasted for peach cobbler. I will totally use it again!!

Some Days Are Just Like That

I really used to hate it when my mom would say that to me. I would have the worst day and after she would listen to me get it all off my chest, she would shrug and say, “Some days are just like that.”

At first I didn’t understand. “What do you mean – some days are just like that?!? Don’t you understand that NO days are supposed to be like that? Every day is supposed to be some swash-buckling adventure, rosy romance, or outrageously funny journey. I’m not supposed to want to rip apart everything within reach just to find some satisfaction in knowing that something had a worse day than I did” I would think.

As I would get one year older, and wiser too, I began to understand that there really are days that don’t really fit into the story. Yes, my life is a story. It’s like the movie “Stranger Than Fiction.” Except that the writer is me and there isn’t really anything written down yet, despite the constant counsel to keep a journal. Unfortunately, for my posterity, this is probably as good as it’s going to get.

Anyway… the day started out as most normal days do… drag myself out of bed at 4:30am, shower, “gently remind” husband to get up, get dressed, “gently remind” husband to get up, do hair and makeup, encourage husband to shower quickly, run downstairs realizing I missed printing something for my seminary class, swallow a bowl of cereal while reading scriptures with awake and showered husband, brush teeth, switch pants to skirt, go out to the freezing cold car and head off to seminary.

Seminary went as most days do, but my first clue to the nonsense that would become my day began when a rumor was discussed prior to class starting. Not only was said rumor ludicrous, there was absolutely no base to even make something of that nature up around. I guess that would apply to most, if not all rumors though. Once we were able to get past that part of the day, we were able to get into our lesson. The rest of class went by just as wonderfully as every other day does. (I love those kids!)

But then I went to work…

The nonsense turned to what some might call middle school.

And when all is said and done, the only thing I can think to put in my book for the day is… “Some days are just like that!”

Seek Learning By Study and Also By Faith

This is the talk that I gave at our Ward Conference Fireside tonight. I really enjoyed putting this talk together and learning from President Kimball, Elder Bednar and President Hinckley.

Seek Learning, Even By Study and Also By Faith
Doctrine and Covenants 109:7-9

President Spencer W. Kimball quoted D&C 93:36 which says “The glory of God is intelligence, or, in other words, light and truth.” And then quoted D&C 121:42 “Pure knowledge … shall greatly enlarge the soul.” And then asked three questions:

1. What is this knowledge, intelligence, and light and truth that our Heavenly Father would have us receive?
2. Does it consist solely of the truths God has revealed through His prophets?
3. What place does knowledge gleaned from secular sources and with secular means have in the scheme of eternal progression?

Define Secular: of or pertaining to worldly things or to things that are not regarded as religious, spiritual, or sacred.

He then answered these questions by saying, “In considering these questions, we must recognize that secular knowledge alone can never save a soul nor open the celestial kingdom to anyone.”

He gives the examples of the Apostles Peter and John and how they were termed ignorant. They knew the vital things of life, they knew that Jesus was their Redeemer and is the Son of God. This knowledge, however, does not excuse us from going to school and gaining a secular education. On the contrary, President Kimball goes on to say that “Secular knowledge can be most helpful to the children of our Father in Heaven who, having placed first things first, have found and are living those truths which lead one to eternal life. These are they who have the balance and perspective to seek all knowledge – revealed and secular – as a tool and servant for the blessing of themselves and others.”

In Doctrine and Covenants 109:7 it says…

There are two different types of learning identified in this phrase:

1. Learning by study
2. Learning by faith

I think it’s safe to say that we know what it means to seek learning by study. If you study, you’ll learn. That’s what text books and curriculums were developed for.

More importantly, it’s also the reason that we have the scriptures. Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin has said, “The more we study the scriptures and pray, the more likely we can enthusiastically share our testimonies of the gospel with others.”

On the Church website, under the topic of testimony, it says:
“Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have the sacred opportunity and responsibility to obtain their own testimonies. Having obtained a testimony, each member has a duty to nurture it throughout life.”

I have found that the words of Nephi in 1 Nephi 3:7 are all too true in this instance:
“…for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them.”

If we, as Latter-day Saints have a responsibility and a duty to gain, nurture and share our own testimonies of the gospel, then it only makes sense that the Lord would provide the resources to do so.

It’s interesting that we’re taught to seek learning by faith. It almost seems backwards. Shouldn’t we study something and then believe in it, rather than learning something because we believe in it?

There was an excellent address given by Elder Bednar to the Church Educational System educators in Feb. 2006 entitled “Seek Learning by Faith” that I will be pulling the majority of the rest of my comments from. It was printed in the September 2007 Ensign in case you’re interested in going back and learning more.

He suggests that learning by faith is to act and not to be acted upon and gives two examples.

The first example is that of Adam in the Garden of Eden. In Genesis 3:9 it says “And the Lord God called unto Adam, and said unto him, Where art thou?” Don’t think for a second that the Lord didn’t already know where Adam was. So why then did he ask the question? “A wise and loving Father enabled His child to act in the learning process and not merely be acted upon. There was no one-way lecture to a disobedient child…. Rather, the Father helped Adam as a learner to act as an agent and appropriately exercise his agency.”

The second example is that of Nephi’s desire to know about the things his father, Lehi, had seen in the vision of the tree of life. If we look in 1 Nephi 11:2 we see that the Spirit said unto Nephi, “Behold, what desirest thou?” “Clearly the Spirit knew what Nephi desired. So why ask the question? The Holy Ghost was helping Nephi to act in the learning process and not simply be acted upon.” All throughout chapters 11-14 “the Spirit both asked questions and encouraged Nephi to look as active elements in the learning process.”

“A learner exercising agency by acting in accordance with correct principles opens his or her heart to the Holy Ghost and invites His teaching, testifying power, and confirming witness. Learning by faith requires spiritual, mental, and physical exertion and not just passive reception. It is in the sincerity and consistency of our faith-inspired action that we indicate to our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ, our willingness to learn and receive instruction from the Holy Ghost. Thus, learning by faith involves the exercise of moral agency to act upon the assurance of things hoped for and invites the evidence of things not seen from the only true teacher, the Spirit of the Lord.”

“The learning I am describing reaches far beyond mere cognitive comprehension and the retaining and recalling of information. The type of learning to which I am referring causes us to put off the natural man (see Mosiah 3:19), to change our hearts (see Mosiah 5:2), to be converted unto the Lord, and to never fall away (see Alma 23:6). Learning by faith requires both “the heart and a willing mind” (D&C 64:34). Learning by faith is the result of the Holy Ghost carrying the power of the word of God both unto and into the heart. Learning by faith cannot be transferred from an instructor to a student through a lecture, a demonstration, or an experiential exercise; rather, a student must exercise faith and act in order to obtain the knowledge for himself or herself.”

In James 2:17-18 we read …

We are taught here that faith without works is dead. The way that we show our faith is by our works. Put it all together and we learn that to seek learning by faith is to DO the things which the Lord will have us do so that the Spirit of the Lord will be our constant companion and teacher. The Bible Dictionary teaches us that the Holy Ghost “Gives one a testimony of Jesus Christ and of his work and the works of his servants upon the earth.” To have the direction, guidance, comfort and wisdom of the Spirit with us as a constant companion is a blessing that the Lord has given us. President Hinckley instructed us to Be Smart.

In January 2002, he said the following:

”You are moving into the most competitive age the world has ever known. All around you is competition. You need all the education you can get. Sacrifice a car; sacrifice anything that is needed to be sacrificed to qualify yourselves to do the work of the world. That world will in large measure pay you what it thinks you are worth, and your worth will increase as you gain education and proficiency in your chosen field.

“you beling to a church that teaches the importance of education. You have a mandate from the Lord to educate your minds and your hearts and your hands. The Lord has said, ‘Teach ye diligently … of things both in heaven and in the earth, and under the earth; things which have been, things which are, things which must shortly come to pass; things which are at home, things which are abroad; the wars and the perplexities of the nations, and the judgements which are on the land; and a knowledge also of countries and of kingdoms – that ye may be prepared in all things.”

“Mind you, these are not my words. These are the words of the Lord who loves you. He wants you to train your minds and hands to become an influence for good as you go forward with your lives. And as you do so and as you perform honorably and with excellence, you will bring honor to the Church, for you will be regarded as a man or woman of integrity and ability and conscientious workmanship. Be smart. Don’t be foolish. You cannon bluff or cheat others without bluffing or cheating yourselves.”

In a nutshell, to seek learning, even by study and also by faith means that we are to study the words of God and then apply them and put them into action in our lives so that He can continue to teach us through the Spirit.

I would like to close with one more quote from President Kimball:

“And let us remember that it is not so much what we know that is important, as what we do and what we are. The Master’s plan is a program of doing, of living, not merely knowing. Knowledge itself is not the end. It is how we righteously live and apply that knowledge in our own lives and how we apply it to help others that describes our character.”

February's Topic – Charity

Recommended Reading List:
1 Nephi 11:21-23
John 13:34-35
Moroni 7:45
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 (for what charity is NOT)
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (for what charity is)
Matthew 25:31-46
1 John 4:18
Doctrine & Covenants 121:45

Additional resources:
Choosing Charity: That Good Part – Ensign, Sister Bonnie D. Parkin, Nov 2003
Charity: Perfect and Everlasting Love – Ensign, Elder Gene R. Cook, May 2002 (this one is really good!)

January's Topic – Faith

The recommended reading list is meant as a guide and springboard to jump start your study of faith. There are many references throughout the scriptures. It will be fun to share what we have found together, as well as personal experiences. Don’t feel like you can’t come if you haven’t read everything. We can learn from each other!!

Recommended reading list:
Alma 32
James 1:5-6
James 2
Romans 10:14-17
Doctrine and Covenants 46:13-16
Genesis 14:26-36 (JST)
John 12:39-42
Bible Dictionary entry on “Faith”

Additionally:
Lectures on Faith by Joseph Smith

If you really want to go for it:
Faith Precedes the Miracle by Spencer W. Kimball

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The chapter heading for Alma 32 tells us that faith is a hope in that which is not seen which is true. Verse 21 adds on that principle by telling us that faith is not to have a perfect knowledge of things. Knowledge and faith are different. If you know something, there’s no need to have faith in it. In verse 27 Alma tells us to exercise our faith, even if we only have a desire to believe. Our desire is like a seed. It might feel small, but can grow to be something great. Seeds don’t grow on their own though – they have to be watered, given sunlight and even talked to. Sometimes weeds grow around our seeds. They have to be pulled and disposed of before they choke our faith.

In James 1:5-6 we’re told that we can gain wisdom by asking God for it. We’re also told, however, that we need to “ask in faith, nothing wavering.” This implies that God will give us the wisdom we seek if we believe that he will and don’t doubt the fact. It also says that the Lord gives to “all men liberally, and upbraideth not.” When we ask in faith, we will receive liberally.

James 2 talks about faith and works. Verse 18 tells us that we can show our faith by our works. It gives the example of Abraham and Isaac. Abraham showed his faith by taking Isaac to the mountain to sacrifice him. When he was about to kill Isaac, an angel appeared and said that he didn’t have to do it – now he knew that Abraham feared God and that was enough. “Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith only.” At the end of verse 26 it says that even as the body is dead without the spirit, faith is dead without works. This means that you can’t just say that you believe and be saved. You actually have to do something. You have to show that you have faith by your works.

Romans 10:14-17 suggests that once we have received the word we are to share it. How are others going to know about it if we don’t share it? This block, if used backwards, gives a process for bringing others into the fold:
First – Missionaries are sent.
Second – Missionaries teach and preach.
Third – Listeners hear about God and Christ.
Fourth – Listeners believe.
Fifth – Listeners pray.
And as we read in James, if we ask we shall receive. The same will happen with the listeners.

Doctrine and Covenants 46:13-16 tells us that faith can be a gift of the spirit.

Genesis 14:26-36 (JST) talks about the faith of Melchizedek and how he received the highest order of the priesthood because of it. He was then able to ordain Abraham.

John 12:39-42 can be compared to Isaiah 6:10.

The Bible Dictionary says that our faith must be centered in Christ in order to produce salvation. Miracles do not produce faith – it’s the other way around. One of my favorite points made in this section is that “Although faith is a gift, it must be cultured and sought after until it grows from a tiny seed to a great tree.” This is a reminder that faith is a gift. It’s something that you have to ask for or have a desire for, but once you’ve asked for it, it’ll be given to you. Once it has been given to you, you have to do something with it though. You can’t just sit at home all the time and say that you believe and expect that all good things will happen to you.

I found another scripture on faith that I really liked. 1 Peter 1:7-9. It says that the trial of your faith is more precious than gold. Your faith is something that can’t be taken away from you.

One year older and wiser too…

I started teaching early morning seminary in September. I can’t believe how much I’ve already learned. I’ve had many Aha! moments and the prophets of the Old Testament have really come alive to me.

This morning we read about the murmurings of the Israelites as they are trapped between the Red Sea and the approaching Egyptians. After everything the Lord had done in delivering them, they still found a reason to complain. I challenged my kids (yes – they’re mine) to keep track of all of the things that they were thankful for throughout the day and at the end of the day, when they kneel down to pray before they go to bed, to make that prayer a gratitude prayer. They were challenged not to ask for anything – just give thanks. I told them that I would keep a list throughout the day at work so that I would be able to give them same kind of prayer at the end of my day. Here’s the list of things that I’m thankful for today:

Jon. I love him more than anything.

Jon doesn’t have a beard anymore. It tickled my nose when he kissed me and it drove me nuts.

My seminary class. They help to remind me every day of the things that are really important in life.

Peter. His confidence in me and my abilities has helped to motivate me.

Connie. Her sweet spirit and willingness to listen.

Maya. Her professionalism and ability to see true cause.

Karen. I wish she was my aunt! She is one of the most genuinly caring people I’ve ever met.

Beverlee. She prepared me for this opportunity.

Bob. He pushed me to become something I didn’t know I wanted to be.

My office. How sweet it is to be able to close the door!

Yair. He’s real. There’s no wondering where I stand. And luckily for me it’s a good place.

The car works. It might be old and ugly, but it works and it’s paid for.

HOME. I love coming home to a place where I belong.

Zoe. She loves me.

EmaLee. My new best friend.

Liz. She’s motivated and finishes what she starts.

My mom. She’s there.

My dad. He cares.

Cathy and Carlie. They called me on my birthday.

Lucy and Courtney. They called me the next day. 🙂

Jamba Juice. COLDBUSTER.

Ice cream.

There are so many things to be thankful for. I’m most thankful for my family. I’m so glad I have them.

Easy to Love

I was reading tonight from the New Era the words of President Hinckley.  He said, “The Church may call upon you to make sacrifice.  It may call upon you to give of the very best that you have to offer.  There will be no cost in this, because you will discover that it will become an investment that will pay you dividends for as long as you live.  The Church is the great reservoir of eternal truth.  Embrace it and hold fast to it.”

 For some reason it brought to my rememberance the testimony meeting we had at the end of girls camp this year.  One of the young women said something that I don’t think I’ll ever forget.  She said that we know who we are and where we are from and what we need to do in order to get to where we want to go.  But sometimes we do stupid things.  We don’t necessarily do them on purpose, we just do them – it’s our nature.  Just because we may do something stupid, however, doesn’t mean that we are suddenly bad people.  It just means that we made a mistake.

We know a few things: 1. We will make mistakes.  There’s no way around that.  2. Heavenly Father knows the intent of our hearts.  3. We are God’s children and are loved by him on a level that we cannot comprehend.  So, if Heavenly Father knows the intent of our hearts, then he knows that we are trying so hard to be as good as we can be.  He knows that we know what we should and shouldn’t do.  He also knows that we are not perfect but are striving to become perfect.  He loves us too much to leave us to figure it out on our own and has given us tools in order to find our way back home and to help us in the things which we are called to do during our time here on earth.  These tools include the scriptures, prophets, apostles, teachers and each other.

We know that we have been put on the earth to be tested.  We weren’t put here by ourselves – one at a time.  We were put here together.  The purpose of being here together is to help one another get through the difficulties of life.  “Mourn with those that mourn”, “comfort those that stand in need of comfort.” 

Some people are easier to love than others.  How easy to love are you?

Two Up… Two Up… One Up, One Kinda Sideways…

I’ve seen three movies in the past 7 days, two of which were excellent and one of which I’m still trying to figure out.

Last Friday night (date night), my husband and I went and saw Superman Returns.  I get that the movie is about a super hero so I’m somewhat understanding when Lois is thrown all over the inside of an airplane and comes out without even so much as a scratch on her arm.  I think we’ve all seen enough super hero movies to know that the actual “hero” isn’t the only one graced with super human strength, scratch resistant skin, Gumby like mobility and/or wind/air/water resistant hair.  Each character blessed with the presence of said super hero seems to get just enough of the super human strength to make the hero’s job just that much more difficult.  Come on now – how much fun would it have been for Lois to actually have drowned in the sinking boat when she hadn’t had a real breath in like 3 minutes?  Or killed in the airplane when her head was repeatedly smashed against the walls, floor, other passengers, seats, etc.?  Then the saga is over and we have to go back to before the beginning.  Oh wait.  I guess technically we don’t have to kill off a super hero to go back to before the beginning – do we Bruce?

Kevin Spacey was excellent.  Always a treat.  All in all, I very much enjoyed watching Superman Returns and will probably go see the next one when it comes out.

Speaking of sub-human… What was with the nasty gooeyness of Davey Jones and his crew?  Yuk.  It was like watching CSI Miami – the one where the girl is found in the water.  Exactly.  It’s a movie I’ll have to see again – gotta catch all the stuff I missed the first time around.  And it’s not like they closed it at the end either.  I thought that everything was tied together rather nicely – Every character returned, even ones that had only been mentioned in the first movie and not seen. 

I was telling one of my co-workers the other day that I was excited to see the movie.  He asked me if I was one of those “Johnny Depp lovers.”  We got into my first experience with Johnny Depp.  I’m not sure how old I was when Edward Scissorhands first came out, or how old Johnny was, but I remember thinking that it was the strangest movie I had ever seen and never cared to see again.  It had to be at least 15 years ago which would have put me at about 12 and way to young to be exposed to the greatness that is Johnny.  Or the greatness that he was then.  He’s better now.  Just keep digging…  Anyway, after watching that movie, I swore that I would never see another movie with him in it for as long as I lived.

Then I saw Chocolate. 

I actually had to be talked into seeing that movie because he was in it.  I was skeptical, but enjoyed it nonetheless.

When I found out that Johnny Depp was in the first Pirates movie I wasn’t exactly thrilled but since I’d been in love with the Disneyland ride, I had to see it.  I loved it.  I bought it on DVD the day it came out and watched it weekly for months memorizing as much as I could.

I do have to say – the first one is better than the second.  And by the looks of it the third one will be too.  Isn’t that the way it’s supposed to be though?

Tonight I went with a friend to see The Lake House.  While it was romantic and cute, I still wonder – WHO asked Keanu Reaves to cry??!  Yikes.  And the sneeze?  Whoa.

There are always problems with time travel movies.  In this one, there wasn’t anyone actually travelling through time, but it still had essentially the same issues.  If you change something that happened to someone two years ago, they aren’t going to be the same person today as you think they are.  And yet she was.  And he was too.  And there’s a two year gap between the letters.  And did she get the ones in the box in the attic?  What about his brother?  What’s he going to think when she suddenly shows up with his brother after he just told her that he was dead – died on Valentines Day (of course) two years previous?  And how come, when she told the brother what her name was, didn’t he get it?  How could he not have put two and two together?

Yes – I have the same issues with Back to the Future and Lost In Space (although I have much bigger problems with the latter) and other such movies.  Oh – one of the biggest Time Holes is in Minority Report with Tom Cruise.  If he hadn’t seen himself shoot someone, he wouldn’t have gone looking for the guy he shot to find out why he shot him.  If he hadn’t gone looking for the guy he woudln’t have shot him.  It’s a big friggin circle that doesn’t make any sense in the end and it turns out to be a big waste of time. 

The thing is – I’ll probably buy that movie.  It was just cute enough to keep me going until the end.